Wedding Memories: Food

The first thing I learned from planning my wedding is that I am far more type A than I ever knew. I don't have the dominating personality that often comes with it, but I completely exemplify the attitude of: If you want something done right you've got to do it yourself. Of course I did have help, but my Aunt is incredibly talented and has impeccable taste, and my mother and sister were willing to help and are good at taking direction.

The food at my wedding was spectacular. We ordered the beef for Argentina since we were in England and didn't want any one complaining about the whole English beef issue. We chopped apple wood and piled it into an open fire chimney on the grounds where the meat was cooked-which infused it with the smokey apple wood. We also chose to serve local asparagus because it was in season and my mother, sister and I went down to a farm in the area and pick each and every stalk ourselves. Some of you are probably thinking that this sounds awful- and the last thing you would want to do the week of your wedding, but i loved every minute of it. I felt SO MARTHA.

Before dinner, we had a fresh chilled avocado soup served in a white mug and garnished with a chive blossom. We also had this adorable bread baked in flowerpots that was meant to be passed and shared around the table; everyone tearing off a piece.

The beef was served with a smoked sun dried tomato and tarragon chutney and accompanied by horseradish crusted garlic potatoes and asparagus. The vegetarians were served a Salmon en Croute that my cousin Daniel made.

At first I wasn't excited about my cake- I had wanted several small tiered cakes in shades of palest blues and green, but when I tasted the cakes that I helped to bake and frost- I was convinced. They had a lovely almond flavor and the lightest hint of lemon in the butter cream frosting.

After the cake, we did a cheese board loaded with fresh strawberries. The table was decorated with tulle from France and real ivy and grape leaves. It was a huge hit and people still talk about the apple wood smoked cheddar that we served.

One of my favorite touches was the wine- we had labels made so that every bottle was a custom tribute to the wedding-- and looked fantastic in the great silver tubs. I loved the way the bar looked.

The food was fantastic and since I love food as much as I do, it meant so much to me to be involved in everything and to see it come out the way it did. People still talk about the quail egg and caviar that we had during the cocktail hour and I smile as I remember how hard it was to peel those tiny little eggs, and they get excited when they tell me that they had never had endive before and now they can't get enough of it- and I am glad we decided to do that when we planned the menu. It was the most perfect wedding that I could imagine- it was such fun to prepare for. To see my husband's face and know that he was so proud of what I put together was a real treat.

It is such a fun memory and I love sharing it with the 100 people that made the effort to show up in England to celebrate with us. The gratitude that I feel toward my aunt and uncle for hosting the wedding is beyond words. That was the best wedding gift I could have asked for.